You’re now ready to jump into the dating pool in search of a girlfriend. This is an exciting adventure, but can feel like you’re navigating through a maze with your eyes closed. Do not be afraid! Find that special person with this no-nonsense guide. Read more now on Festivals are a really great way to meet people.

Be yourself first. Authenticity is appealing. It may sound cliche but it’s true. Imagine that you are at a party, and you come across someone who is trying to impress you. It’s tiring to hear them brag about their jobs and drop names all over the place. Imagine someone who is relaxed, genuine and maybe even a little goofy. Which person would you prefer to spend time with? Exactly.

Then, go out! There aren’t many people who binge-watch Netflix on their couch (although we do love a good show marathon). Join groups or clubs that you are interested in – hiking, painting or board games, for example. You’ll be able to meet people who share your interests, and you will have something in common with them.

Communication is the key to talking. Ask questions and listen carefully to the responses. Share a funny tale about the neighbor’s pug that thinks it’s a kitten if she mentions how much she loves dogs. Engage her curiosity without making it an interrogation.

Confidence can be attractive, but it shouldn’t be confused with arrogance. It’s important to know the difference between self-assurance and arrogance. Confidence is knowing that you are worth it without constantly needing validation from others.

Dress well, but be comfortable. If you’re not a James Bond fan, then don’t dress like him. A good fit and clean clothes will make a great impression.

You can also use humor to your advantage. Laughter is the fastest way to build relationships. Avoid offensive humor and instead share jokes, funny stories or experiences.

Maintain eye contact, but avoid staring like you are in a stare-down with Medusa. It’s contagious, and it shows that you are approachable.

Let’s talk about rejection, because it is part of the game. It’s okay if not all girls are interested. Rejection isn’t always about you. Sometimes people aren’t compatible due to reasons that are beyond your control.